Head For The Hills
So what happens when a laid back,able to bite his tongue,go with the flow,father of two meets a jumping tracks,passionate(read aka does NOT ever hardly bite her tongue.See passionate sounds better.),must have a schedule mother of 4 ?
Oh Holy Hell just run for the hills now….Seriously…grab the women and children and HEAD FOR THE HILLS….
“SO what exactly does this schedule involve?” I was asked
“It’s a schedule a daily schedule from Monday to Friday so I as well a the kids know when we need to be doing what.” I tried to explain as showing him The Managers of Their Homes workbook I have used in the past. I told him to look it over and his eyes glazed over after seeing all the different slots and times.
We’re caught in a catch 22 right now. We want to start just living our daily lives,while at the same time trying to get unpacked the rest of the way and I just don’t have time to incorporate everything into my day.
He’s a night person(he kinda has to be he works nights but even before that he was.)
I’m a morning person.(Don’t even THINK about trying to get me to be productive after about 7:30 at night.)
We have BOTH lived on our own for a very very long time…being the head of the household.
We are BOTH stubborn beyond words.
We BOTH want to put our families first
We BOTH are working on our communication.
We BOTH love each other very much
He can ROLL with the punches.
I CRAVE stability and schedule
He is MY calm
I am HIS…ummm ok I’ll admit it I am his storm.
And that is why no matter when things might get a little harried…whether it’s from running around like crazy people,or talking schedules, we still both come out on top.
Still though if I were you I’d stay up in those hills till you see the white flags waving.